2006/03/01
Writing down about my life
I am reading new book about what I must do in order to get a good life.Recently,I didn't read books such as this book.
But I like those type of books and often read those in the past.The book I am reading contains 100 chapters and was written based on scientific and survey data.
The chapter I am reading now is about that it is very important to write down what I want and what I need.I agree this thought.In the past,I had read the similar book.
At firt,it is very important that figure out what I want to do or get.And so we can get close our ideals as we write down about our ideals.I agree and I think the process is very important.
After reading the book,I wrote down my goal and my task every day.Before I started my work,I checked this note and thought about my task again.
After I finished my work,I checked it again.If I found the thing I forgot to do,I wrote down it on the note.
Of course,if it was not necessary for me at once,I sometimes hang up to do it.
Recently I didn't write down about my goal,s etc.
As I am reading new book,I think it is very nice chance to think about my life.
- What do I want?
- What do I need?
So I will start writing down my ideal since today.
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I'm back!!! ahahah
Hm... interesting post. it would be NICE to talk to you about this (because i'm passing through it too).
Thanks for your comment!
How are you?
I'm fine and enjoying reading this book.
I think this book is great too!
http://www.amazon.co.jp/exec/obidos/ASIN/0671663984/ref=si_1_2/249-7074759-6936358
After reading this book,I changed my life.
Hi, reona!!!
first of all, i know i must apologize for being so silly posting this comment. afterall, it would be very annoying to interfere in your way of organizing things... but i like discussing subjects like this one because i have so much to learn (and it's always a pleasure to chat with you).
i would thank you a lot if you reply this comment. moreover i thank you if you simply read it.
ok. let's go to the discussion:
you said the book teaches 'what I must do in order to get a good life'.
my hint is simple: do what you need exclusively for a specific momment. and try to learn or have fun on every time (you taught me that when i told you about my mom and the iPod, remember? ;) ). don't make plans for long periods, because one fact can destroy all of it and the disappointment would cause a great depression (actually i have a theory about this but i don't know your religion, so maybe i tell you later)... besides, you would get so worried about your plans that you would probably live stressed.
the other topic is 'it is very important to write down what I want and what I need'.
as i told you before, if you make plans for a time which is uncertain, everything can be ruined with a simple movement because your expectations are also ruined and then you lose the will to do things. and it's one of the saddest things i've ever seen...
of course, if you have discipline (as you seem to have it) that's great, keep going!! but if you don't, please, don't guilt yourself, afterall you are a human being.
and the last: 'I think it is very nice chance to think about my life'
every minute is a good chance. i watched a brazilian movie called 'a dama do cine shanghai' (it means kind of 'the lady of shanghai cinema') and there's a speech i will never forget! it sounds like this: 'my boss has never believed in coincidences. he used to say that if two pieces fit to each other, it's because they belong to the same puzzle'. so, face every fact, every momment, everyhing as something useful for you. and if you sense a wind of change, go for it! i admired you when you posted that you quit your job (in... 2004?) because you didn't like it! it was very brave and beautiful to see that you wouldn't do something that made you unhappy only because of money!!!
well, these are my comment about living life. if you disagree, great! if you agree, thank you, let's discuss even though! and if you didn't understand anything and think i'm a lunatic... well, at least you've practiced your English! ahahahahhah
Have a nice weekend!!!!!!!
Hi!
Thanks for your comment.
Learning is very important.
I think we have to keep tring learning sometings while we are living.
I think the movie 'a dama do cine shanghai' is great.
So I would like to see 'a dama do cine shanghai'.
I agree thought of that movie.
I think we can learn something even from the miss.
But I recently didn't think about what I want to do deeply.
Of course I like my work.
I think our thought and what we want to do will change by years.
I could get the job I had wanted to do now.
I means not only work but also everything that I want to do.
So it is a time to think what I want to do in the future for me.
After thinking those,I will have to find the ways.
I think steps and process are more important to me than outcome.
Even if I don't get things that I want to,I can learn something from failures.
Anyway,I appreciate you!
(two comments in-a-row! ahahah)
oh, now i see what 'writing down about life' is about...
and i must say you're completely right. now i can see that your methodic process to improve the personal satisfaction makes you feel very safety from unfortunates facts (and does not mean the closest and uncertain solution).
i support this kind of thought at all!!
'Even if I don't get things that I want to,I can learn something from failures'
you told everything!!
bye-bye!
P.S.: 'a dama do cine shanghai' belongs to the 'film-noir' gender, do you like this kind of movie too?
hi!
I am very glad because you understood my thought.
Thanks!
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